help please?

Question by PNX: help please?
my ex just got a hardcore intervention yesterday with me and his family. and hes going into rehab in a couple days. i dont live with him anymore, but it kills me not being there. i know i should wait till he calls/texts me when he wants to see me.. but im just scared. he broke up with me for reasons i could change about myself. but he was so inset with his drugs and his ways, he didnt want to change things about himself. and seeing him yesterday was really hard, espically after the intervention, he was crying and hugging me telling me he loved me. it sucks living cities away, but i know i should just wait untill he calls when he needs me. we dated for a year, and we were so close. and out of the blue he dumped me. and now im the only person outside his family that never used him for drugs, put him down or abused him. how do i get my mind away from my phone??
thank you guys for your answers. it means a lot. i will wait for him to call me. his family knows i love him, and i love them more than anything. and he comes first in all of our lives. i will wait for him.
its rehab for pot.. not like hardcore drugs..

Best answer:

Answer by shutuppauface
It was you and his family at the intervention. He knows you care and are there to support him.
Leave him alone to get his act and life together. When he’s ready, he’ll contact you. Communicating him could actually hinder his recovery.
You did a good thing for HIM, it’s not about you. Leave him be and go find YOUR future. He will be in it in one capacity or another.

PS re: update:
It’s the addictive behaviour that’s the problem, not the substance in question.

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