Help me out from this HELL called DRUGS…..?

Question by sadhu: Help me out from this HELL called DRUGS…..?
Is there any person out there ,who had get rid of these self killing substances called OPIATES.if ur(the person reading this)is a successful person(in quiting opiates)who had got his freedom back with courage from opiate addiction,(without relapse for at least 6 months),ur much needed person for me.can u tell me how u handeled the TRAUMA and emotional PAIN as well as physical PAIN while quiting.If ur the person(u may understand my pain because u also had gone thru this dark period of life for several months or years).what kind of method u use,how ur able to change ur focus from quiting to getting ur freedom with ur will power.before going further ,I want to tell u that,,,I had 2 relapses,1st after 5 months and 2nd after 6 months.
Ok,medicine works,but eventually,it comes down to emotional cravings(of cource ,after stopping treatment,thinking that,now I don’t need any medicine,I can handle my emotions myself without any medicine).well I had tried COLD TURKEY,but not much success.Well now I think that TAPPERING method is very good,but I need some one who can tell me how to use this method correctely.to tell u,I take 36 capsules in a day,with 3 shifts of 12 capsukes each, Namely SPASMO PROXYVON(my source of opiates).I want to know that how much quantity of capsules should I reduce each week(or 15 days or months as u suggest,with ur experience),so that I don’t feel much cravings,what kind of activity I should I do to keep my focus away from opiates.Meditation works,plz tell me the correct way and timing of doing meditation.Is there any specific diet which may reduce my temptation……or if u had invented any certain new method which works for u personally?……………well congratulations to u my frnd,for getting ur freedom back…….so plzz help me to get my freedom back…….. .
Well the thing is that the persons who had never been abused drugs,may give u advice that” quiting drugs should be a chilkd’s play for me,if im in ur position”.But a person,who had actually been gone thru this hell(of drugs),may know the suffering and pain of another addict……….thanx for reading and hopefully answering…………….god xless u my frnd………

Best answer:

Answer by marla
I have not had to quit H, but I had a friend who did…

He enveloped himself in his work to the point it almost made him sick, then he went on a bender, then the cops found him, then he spent a few months in the hospital psych ward… While he was there his wife divorced him, she took his house too. She tried to take his business but she failed. In the end he wound up living back at his parents house and only having visitation rights for his kids, BUT!

HE QUIT!!!!!!!

I only tell you his story because yes it was the hardest thing he has had to do. It was hard to watch as well, for all of his friends. We all wanted to jump in and fix it but we couldn’t. Every time we tired he would get better for a little bit, then all of the sudden he would disappear for a few days and come back looking… Well you know. When we all left him alone and let him go he tried to work himself to death and did the bender thing.

He was one of my best friends before he got into it, then he became a liar and a thief. I stopped hanging with him because he took a few things from me and it really hurt my feelings. While he was on it I hardly knew him at all, and either did anyone else. He changed according to what he thought would suit him that day.

But when I heard he was in the hospital I went to see him. It took awhile but I remember the last visit which was right before he got out. He was my friend again!! He was the guy I has known for years, the one whose advise I always sought. Gone were the weird behaviors and the twitch, as well as the lies! He said that coming through to the other end was one of the hardest things he has ever done, but it was also the best. He said that one day he woke up and decided that he needed to change for his kids and he would do what it took, and now that he had done it he knows it is the best thing he has ever done.

I don’t know what to tell you to do to make this time in your life work for you, but I want you to know you are not alone in this. I want you to know that there are people out there who do not judge you for it, but they do see it as something you need to master. I personally do not think that drug usage is bad, but I think the pain that they can cause is sad. So I sypathize for you, and I hope you make it! I do not judge you for ending up in this boat, but I expect you to stay strong and get out of it. Forgive yourself for the things you have done, I forgive you if it helps. You are not a bad person and you don’t need the drug, the drug needs you. Don’t let it win, I am pulling for you. The best of luck and a hug for you. If it gets too hard go to the hospital, they will help.

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