Fear: Why Most Smokers Are Afraid To Be An Ex Smoker
and now smoking to them is an unnoticeable automatic action. But take that away from them and they will soon notice. Within an hour I’m sure. This is drug addiction.
Here is the extremely “Good News”. Remember, when you stop supplying your body with nicotine there is no pain or suffering. The people who start to suffer are the Governments and Tobacco companies. Only good things start to happen to you and any withdrawal feeling that a smoker or you may feel when you stop is very slight and you will suffer more from the flu. Trust me. Believe it.
2. You won’t be able to cope with stress.
Stress is part of life. Period! You, me, and everyone on this planet will in the future suffer from stress or has in the past suffered from it in one way or another. There is no way around this and there are different levels and different types of stress that we all have to deal with. These may be a fight with a loved one, a dispute with a boss or colleague at work, screaming kids. Maybe it is an illness or idiots on the road when you’re driving. The list is endless and life throws them at you every day.
Let’s look at the smoker who has just had a fight with her husband because he forgot to pick up a prescription for her and its Saturday afternoon now and the pharmacy is closed till Monday. The wife has recently been suffering from bad migraines and needed the medicine to get through the weekend. On top of this her mother called at lunchtime to say she couldn’t look after the kids next week because they were going on a mini vacation till next weekend as from Tuesday. The telephone conversation with Mom had already put her in a bad mood as she now has to find and pay for a babysitter to pick up the kids from school most of next week and then hubby comes homes and has completely forgotten to get the medicine she needs. It’s all too much for her and after the somewhat heated exchange with her husband, she storms out of the house to the garden and lights up a cigarette and somehow unknown to her, the cigarette helps her to feel better with the situation. However this is not true. Really not true. What really happened is this. Her last cigarette was 2 hours ago and she is already 1 hour overdue for her nicotine fix when hubby came home. This means that the addiction would have been prompting her that it is time to feed it. Other chores and errands made smoking a cigarette not possible at the time. So naturally she is already irritated because she hasn’t had her nicotine fix and then the normal life stress with Mom and her husband added more irritation or aggravation to her mental state.
When she runs off into the garden for a smoke the nicotine only temporarily relieves the stress of the addiction and not the situation at hand with her loved ones. This illusion is why people think that smoking relieves stress. It only causes it. Because when you smoke realistically you are smoking to get back to a normal state of being that non-smokers enjoy every moment of the day. Non-smokers experience stress in life too. But they don’t reach for the Marlboro’s when it happens. Smokers become accustomed and automatically light up a cigarette in a time of stress, because the stress will always be around when its time for a nicotine fix.
Put it into your brain that smoking does not relieve stress but only causes it. If you have a normal life stress situation however big or small then you can only deal with it in a normal rational humane way. No cigarette ever solved a real problem for me. It only created more. Have only one type of stress in your life to deal with. Not two.
3. You won’t be able to concentrate or think straight.
Your brain is a wonderful, complex and amazing organ. It can do the most incredible things and it is a machine that needs to be well maintained to function normally. Your brain offers you thoughts and inspirations. It supplies you with images of wonderful memories. It holds your history in life. It does thousands of great things. It really is a truly astonishing piece of equipment. However, your brain will not function correctly and it will have slight malfunctions if its natural source of fuel (Oxygen and nutrition filled blood) is contaminated with toxins and elements of hundreds of unnatural chemicals that come exclusively in a cigarette. When you constantly impede your brain and blood with these poisons there will be an effect. And the effect will be in a negative and diminishing way.Life has many distractions when we are trying to concentrate on something particular. It may be other people talking to you, noises from outside, dogs barking, music and other sounds etc. For us to overcome these distractions we might seek a secluded area in order to focus on what needs our concentration. The smoker no matter where he or she goes will never be completely free of any distractions because there is one distraction