ex’s-inlaws @ kids advice needed plz?

Question by [email protected]: ex’s-inlaws @ kids advice needed plz?
iv recently split from my partner after 6yrs not my choice believe me, anyway 2cut along story short in march he asked me 2help him quit cocaine i put my heart @ soul in2 helping him,i cried my eyes out watchin him destroy himself. because he wa up alnite he slept nearly allday hardly gettin out to earn a living, he watched me graft al yr then in sep i paid for a holiday we planned togeth but cos he ant been gettin out ov bed to work most ov my money went into it, on hols and away from his coke buddys he wa real i couldnt hav asked for any1betta he planned to start his own recovery business and we talked ov movin homes after xmas we also had sed we’d save money for xmas toys for the kids and not leave everythin til the last minute we wer propely gettin organised or so i thort, straight as we got back from hols that nite he got2gram my heart sank 2wks after we wa back he left his phone was switched off for3wks with not a word,then out of the blue gets a tex sayin dont wanna b with u anymor want a fresh start,he’s not seen his kids since sep and not provided anything,on bonfire night he asked if he could hav kids and take em 2 a bonfire display with him not talking to me i had arranged to take kids to my mums and meet up with the rest of the family, after bein at my mums and back home my eldest son came in and sed he’d seen his stepdad and thinks he has sum1else he’d seen him kissin another girl at the bonfire display him and his mates went2 i found out that he wa back with his ex who id neva given a second thort about in the 6yr we wa togeth, his ex also plastered that they were thrilld to be back togeth and they had been for awhile and plannin to hav a baby themselves, i wa devo’d i think al this time his family hav known and especially his mum i cant believe her she knew how id tried to help him and its like she’s covered up for him everytime he’s left his mum neva contacts me about the kids she stays away.the last thin my ex sed to me wa iv no need to contact him and wen i decide i want him to see his kids iv to phone his mums for him, i havent bothered iv dun it on my own al yr so took him at his word and havent contacted any of them the kids ant asked so we’v been trying to get on with living our lives best we can and hope for a better year in 09, now my ex is contactin me and so is his mum i feel that if i dont giv in and roll over he’l start gettin nastier with me he hasnt sed one nice thing since he left he’s acted as tho he hates me and al i did wa make his life miserable im just stook he has hurt me and al our kids so much even down to his 5yr old son whos birthdat wa on dec2nd this yr he got no card no prezzie from any of his side, how do u suggest i handle this situation al i wanna do is get on with my life same as him

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Answer by Real Talk….Ya dig
So……you have been a FOOL for 6years!!! Imagine that!!

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