Easter family and divorces???

Question by irishfirefighter762: Easter family and divorces???
I have been speared from my wife for about three weeks. She has been struggling with an addiction to sleeping pills and has now stated to work on getting better. She is staying with her mother and she is not very supportive to her. I wont her to get better I just don’t wont her to be married to her any more. I talk with her once a day and I go out to eat with her once a week. We are now coming up on Easter and she wants to know what we are going to do for Easter. I have a lot of family support and we will all be having supper together. My wife has done wrong by lying and creating finance problems time and time again. She has also lied to most of my family and has not talked to most of them for around 6 months so there is some hard feeling. I am afraid by having her over to Easter would 1 create dram with the family and 2 would give her faults hope that we would be getting back together. My dilemma is that she has no ware to go on Easter. Her mother has said she won’t be doing anything. She dose have family in the area and has been invited to one of her AA friends houses witch she has asked me to attend. Most of all I wont her to overcome her addiction I do not want to put my heart on the line to be hurt again. Ho do I support her in her addiction recovery and not give her faults hope that the marriage is going to work out? How do I explain to her that I don’t want her to come to Easter dinner?

We have no children and we have only been married a year and a half. No I did not know she had the addiction before marring her.

Best answer:

Answer by DJ
It’s great that you are sensitive to her needs, yet can keep a rational head in this matter. Spend only a few allotted hours with her for the holiday (take her and her mom out to dinner or accompany her to the the home of her AA friend) but spend the rest of your time with your family.

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