drama makes me hate everyone, whats going on?

Question by screwyoujesus: drama makes me hate everyone, whats going on?
this is very complicated so I’ll try to explain as best i can:

I was friends with my buddy “jim” for 3 years. I worked in his shop as a graphic artist and i was super best friends with his wife, “Jan”

one night “jim” went all wacko on coke? and alcohol and held a gun to my head and told me he loved me and he was gay. blah blah blah

a week or so later “Jim” and our mutual friends (a married couple) “dan” and “deb” went to a concert and apparently after an entire night of “jim” picking fights he went all wacko again and held a gun to his head. “Jim” went into the bathroom with “deb” to talk for about 10 minutes

“Jim” told me later that he told “deb” (married to someone else, mind you) that he was in love with her and she felt the same way.

I stopped hanging out with “jim” after our gun incident. a few months later “jan” found out that he had apparently been cheating on her for a while with a lot of their out of town friends on (coke and sex filled) business trips.

“jan” left “jim” and moved and “jim” immediately moved in with our friend “corey’s” ex wife “candy” and her 2 kids in “JAN’s” house!! ha

“Jim” and “candy” were raided 2 weeks later and they were found with meth, coke, pot, 15 pipes, and illegal guns that were left loaded next to all of the drugs within reach of the 2 (1.5-3 year old) children of “candy”. apparently the youngest was so neglected that the back of his head was flat and he was covered in sores 🙁

“jim” went to jail and was released after a month and is on 2 years probation.

ANYWAY

every one of our friends (financially comfortable, stable, homeowners) think “jim” is the biggest piece of crap except “dan’s” wife “deb” who has his NEW number and has been calling him.

My sister in law (and deb) told me today that a few days before he was raided that “deb” went in for a tattoo that started at 4pm and ended at 7 am causing a fight between “deb” and “dan”

i worked with “jim” for a while and he GENERALLY took forever from preperation to finish on tattoos, but THAT amount of time for a tattoo that is SERIOUSLY 30 minutes of actual work.

ANYWAY

what brough up all this stuff is that my sister in law told me that “DEB” was telling everyone that my sister in law came crawling to “jim” for sex before she married my brother

this is an obvious lie on 2 parts. “jim” never said this, and my sister in law never came crawling for sex….

“deb” was using this story before “jim” got raided to make everyone else (not me) in the group hate him.

WTF IS GOING ON!!! I’m sooo confused

Best answer:

Answer by SimonKunJR
Jim must have liked two or three girls before and they’re so close that he cannot choose. Rumors go out often and it is not true. Some are, but most arn’t. Apparently, Jim likes more than two girls and that he wants to go out with all but it won’t work out, screwing everyone’s mind and heart. That’s what I think.

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