Don’t Understand friendship vs love…WHY?

Question by Erin S: Don’t Understand friendship vs love…WHY?
You meet a guy and you go on a date. Everything goes great till he realizes that your family is highly educated. Then the talking, texting, and phone calls lessen. He used to work by where you live, but ends up getting transferred. He meets a new girl and get’s her pregnant then BAM. You have backed away and out of no where he uses you as comfort. You come to find out she aborts his child and now they aren’t engaged anymore. He says he doesn’t want to lose you and he cares for you, but it’s really the alcohol he uses to numb the pain. You provide all the love and support, but he only seeks advice when your ready to let go. He goes days and sometimes weeks not talking to you and seeks you when no one else will. His sister adores me and tells me to not get intertwined with his ways of seeking comfort only when he allows it. And yet I still remain a friend. I’ve poured all my energy, love, hope, and health professional advice as much as I could. It over-whelms me and makes me want to give up. Should I? I’ve known him for 4 years now and we have only been friends. As he states, “I don’t need any help” that’s why he does not pursue it further. What a crock. Give me a break. BBM is not my idea of a friendship nor a way to communicate with someone who just sat and listened and provided a shoulder to cry on. Most likely, he won’t read this. In case he does….shame on you for shutting out those who helped. It’s unfair to shut out those that did a lot and never judged.

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Answer by Chica
Tell him how you feel. Remember to be calm, don’t call him any bad names no matter how mad you are. Just tell him you’re mad and why. He sounds like the violent type, so do this either through text message, facebook (if you have one), or in a very public place. Only do this if you just want to end it all. Good luck!

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