Confused about my ex-girlfiend?
Question by anonymous tipster: Confused about my ex-girlfiend?
My ex and I broke up about a year ago. It absolutely crushed me, we had such a beautiful relationshp. Everything was wonderful and then she came home from a business trip and wanted out of the relationship. She was my world and I would do anything for her. Every single little thing about her I adored. I’ve been in quite a few relationships, hell I was even married once, but I’ve never been in love like that. I was so crazy about her.
Since then I went through therapy and did some soul searching. I tried to forget her and I thought I did. I found a wonderful sweet girl and I’m in a relationship with now. She treats me like a king and I care for her a lot. Things have gotten kind of serious recently and her lease is up and she is going to move in with me to save some money.
I thought I forgot my ex and was over her. She recently emailed me, her grandmother recently died and I’ve been going through rehabilitation for drug addiction. I am 40 days sober now, which is the best thing I could have ever done for myself. She wants to see how I’m doing and talk. She wants to go grab lunch next week, and I don’t know what to do. I know things are different with girls and she probably just wants to grab lunch, but I’m worried that I may do something stupid or regretful.
I don’t want to hurt the girl I’m with and I don’t want to go through that pain again. Since she’s emailed me I keep thinking about all of our great memories. I’ve found myself playing songs that remind me of the love we once had. I am still head over heals in love with her.
My questions is what should I do? How should I go about this? I am very confused.
Best answer:
Answer by marty
You need to be fair to your new girlfriend. Figure out your feelings before you go on in your current relationship and before you move in together.
It is very possible that your ex just wants to see you, it does not mean she definately wants you back.
M
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