Chances of having a succesfull pregnancy after 2 misscarriages and 1 abortion?
Question by concernedfreind: Chances of having a succesfull pregnancy after 2 misscarriages and 1 abortion?
Okay, there is this girl i used to be good friends with in highschool, she is a couple years younger then me. She is a real crazy girl, always sleeping around, always on some kind of crazy drug. Like crack, heroin, acid, coke. and not just a little a WHOLE LOT!
alright. well, the first time she got pregnant was when she was 14 or 15 and she was doing alot of cocaine at the time so she had a misscariage.
then she got pregnant again at 16. Same shit she was doing alot of drugs and drinking and she had another misscariage.
less then a year later she gets pregant again! decides to have an abortion this time. which she had back in march. now it is june and she is pregnant for the 4th freaking time. 7 weeks along. So she got preggo just a couple weeks after her abortion.
She is planning on keeping this baby. I am a 21 yrold mother of a 1 year old girl,and i do NOT think this girl is ready for a kid.
Oh, and to top it all off, she just got off of a big heroine binge right around the same time she got pregant.
i just want to know what her chances of having a smooth pregnancy and healthy baby look like. Given her past with 2 miss’ and 1 abortion AND all the drugs, im not sure that she will be successfull. and i am worried for her health and the health of this poor unborn baby.
Best answer:
Answer by lysistrata411
Are you friends with this girl? The only thing you can be is supportive, which is something she probably really needs. If she is a drug addict, she will especially need someone to help her stay clean and take care of herself and the baby. She needs someone to educate her on how to do this and what is best for the baby. You may worry about the baby, but it is ultimately up to the mother of the child to do the right thing.
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