Can I leave my home without throuble please read I need help?

Question by Stina is lost and expecting: Can I leave my home without throuble please read I need help?
So I am 16 with a month old son. I live with my mother and step dad and four other siblings.

My step dad treats my mom and brothers like total crap. He puts them down, when he gets mad over the littlest things he gets violent, he accuses people of things they did not do ETC. I hate it when he yells at my mom, it kills me inside, but she does not do anything and won’t stand up for herself at all. This includes her children. Today he was ‘helping” my brother do his home work and called him stupid and yelled at him for saying the same thing he was saying at the same time. This is something my brother has always done though, it helps him learn because he is a little slow mentally and has issues in school. Well you would think my step dad would be understanding of this but he isn’t. A while back my uncle cam over wit his children, his son had a sippy cup on the couch, my step dad took it from him and my cousin started to cry and my step dad screamed at him to go cry his fucking head in the pillow. It was odd my step dad had a problem with my cousin having his cup on the couch when my sister and brother do this all the time and he has not once said anything to them. Of course my uncle said nothing and left and my cousin is now scared to come over.

I have problems with my mom too. We have never really every gotten along or been close. She knows I do not like my step dad but has yet not done anything except push him on me. Yes, I am grateful he provides for my family and I like him for that but I absolutely not like the way he treats my family. I can not ask her to leave because she will say no. She is also not open enough to listen to my reasons. Other people in the family know how my step dad nd mother is but can’t do anything because of the fact my mom is not open and will not listen because she just does not care.

She is supportive of me and my child to an extent. She had me the same age I had my son so she understands. I am doing online High School and going to college and it seems to not be enough for her. To her I do not do anything around the house and I dont help out with my siblings. I practically raised my brothers and sister because she couldn’t keep her legs closed and kept popping them out. I had a lot of responsibilities from a very young age. Now that I have more, it does not matter. She makes comments to me that makes me mad and hurts me. For example I was nursing the baby and my brother asked me to help him do something and I simply told him that I couldn’t and that I was feeding my son (I am still getting the hang of things) and she commented that I can’t ever do anything but take care of my kid. This hurt because I do alot for her and my family. I cook, I clean, I baby sit and I go to High School and college at the same time. It made me mad because she quit High School freshman year and all she ever did was take care of me, she never cleaned or anything.

I feel suffocated and depressed. I have no social life, I do not get to make my own chooses and I am dying inside. I want to make my own decisions so I can learn from them myself but she does not let that happen, she is too controlling, everything has to go her way.

I just want out of my house. My son and I can go and live with an other relative that wants us there. The problem is I am only 16, not 18 so I still have to live with her.

Can I leave and live with an other relative if I am not 18 or will the police make me and my son came back here? I live in Arizona by the way.

Oh and please do not suggest emancipation because I have tried and there is no way I can be.

Any advice is welcome.

Best answer:

Answer by MARVEL at this!!
damn!!!!!!! do I need to take notes?

Sheesh

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