Are these deal breakers?
Question by hello: Are these deal breakers?
When my boyfriend and i fight he overreacts in the first place and says VERY hurtful things like:
we should take a break
he deserves better
that “his” daughter comes before me (from a previous relationship)
that i dont deserve him
he would rather be w someone nice than soemone pretty (i’m very nice!)
he said i’m lazy and use my mom
that i only care about myself b/c i go work out instead of spending every minute w him.
etc…
I think the most hurtful thing he has said is that i’m damaged goods b/c i slept w someone in the past (6yrs ago) that wasn’t white. he has been so hurtful and now that i realized he has a BAD gambling addiction I don’t know if i should keep trying to make it work. i’m trying to help him w his addicgtion i found him a specialist etc… and when we fight he says that he never doesn ne thing right that he’s an asshole just to make me feel bad. btw hes 36 and im 23
Best answer:
Answer by makin_the_same_mistakes
dump him and find someone worth your time.
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