am i at fault for having a girl use me?
Question by Bobby: am i at fault for having a girl use me?
i just broke up with my girlfriend. here’s what she did to me.
i known her for four years. we met in paris studying abroad. her friends called her a skank, and drug dealer said she sleeps with everybody, so I hacked into her email, and found out she was selling herself on craigslist. ever since then i keep reading her email because of what she did. she used to be a drug dealer, prostitute on craigslist, cocaine user, and very promiscuous. she did not love me four years ago. i felt i was being used at that time. she would hangout with me and go to dinner, but at the end of the night other guys got to sleep with her, and preferably for money or drugs.
i broke things off with her four years ago.
then three years ago we tried it again. this time we were dating, and it was clear that it was more than friends. she was in sorority at that time, and didn’t invite me to parties or anything. she asked if I was gay. I asked her for sex. She said people don’t ask. Just do it. She was finding guys at craigslist to sell herself for. She told me she wasn’t sexual with anyone. We broke off.
Then one year ago she contacts me again. She’s now a professional gold digger. She finds saudi arabian princes, and fuck them for high amounts of money. We dated a little bit. We went to Vegas. I got a hotel room for us, and her friends. She charged up $ 5,000 in room service, and then emptied the mini bar. In vegas she flirted with other guys, and asked me to stay at the room when we went clubbing. I broke up.
She contacted me again 9 months ago. She asked for money. I helped a little bit. $ 500. She asked for more. We then went on a date and it was $ 200 a serving. Her friend was with her, so I had a huge bill. In the middle of the date, they ran off with Saudi Arabian Princes, but told me they were going to the restroom. I saw them do that with my eyes. We broke up.
Six months ago. She contacts me again. I told her I love her. She said yes. She did it so I take her to Europe to see her friend. In europe, she told me she doesn’t love me. She emailed a friend wanting a saudi prince to fuck her. She didn’t want me in europe, and so she stayed longer than me, but I spent over $ 10,000 on the trip. After she came to the USA, she stole my credit card, and charged for $ 400 worth of shit that got me $ 300 in overdraft fees. Broke up.
She contacts me saying she will give herself sexually to me. She did because she had bills to pay. We made vegas the spot where we have sex together for our first time. I pleased her with my fingers, and we went downstairs. She told me I have to buy a $ 3000 chanel purse before I can have her sexually. I did. She then fell in love with me because I turned out to be more sexual then she thought. I was required to buy her gifts. I was required to support her. It averaged $ 10,000 a month. I keep telling her that it’s over my budget as I make a $ 140,000 a year, and I can’t support a girl for $ 10,000 a month with all the other obligations I have. She said no, and I go to debt. I read her email, and she’s asking other arab men for big money. $ 2700. She uses “love you” in the email. I confront her, and she said $ 2700 is nothing, and a guy is just giving her that as a gift. She then moves to Paris to study in graduate school. She told me I can’t visit her frequently, but I have to support her. She told me she can have sex with other arab men for a minimum of $ 3000. I can’t sleep with her frequently but I have to give that money anyway. Things broke up.
She’s mad at me because I obsesses over her. I tell her it’s the obsession of her using me. I stalk her, and I threat her with doing stuff to her, but that has been done in the past six months because I spent so much on her. I did not do that in the four years, however, I did check her emails for the four years since I kept finding stuff on her.
Did I do anything wrong?
Best answer:
Answer by I DJ Weddings
Yea. You’re obsessive I believe!
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