[Ladies] Still cleaning up, getting thin – and then I meet her… help?

Question by Dartagnon: [Ladies] Still cleaning up, getting thin – and then I meet her… help?
We totally hit it off. She’s like a comet – a rare “perfect” for me. I see her at the gym and we have these great talks. I’m still heavy and trying to lose a lot more weight, plus, I’m in recovery from addiction/alcoholism. She seems to really dig me and (obviously) I’m into her.

I’m stuck.

I’m thinking of simply befriending her while I’m in this important phase of my life – NOT pursuing her. However, I want to keep her as a potential partner (sex/love). This seems like a delicate balance. How would you suggest I stay friends with her, a potential partner, and not get caught in that evil “we’re just friends” trap??

Your thoughts are appreciated!

Best answer:

Answer by fakenewman
why do you care what i think? don’t be a loser.

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