my Borderline ex girlfriend, any advise?
Question by Parnavue: my Borderline ex girlfriend, any advise?
I dated this girl for 1 year and half, we have been on and off. She was diagnosed with borderline personality disorder…. This girl is very sweet, and so naive (She trusts everyone except the people who love her) I have witnessed so many things with her, she beat me up so many times, and I never touched her. Physical abuse, premscuity, Constant and continuous lies about everything, everthing, everything. I love her so much, and I dont want her to get hurt. She is on hardcore drugs, trashiest friends ever, they even beat her sometimes, she hooks up with like 5 guys at the same time. She basically have a gangster minset, and she comes from a very good christian family, they dont have any financial problems, and her parents are really nice people and they would do anything to help her out. and I tried telling her that all those people she is hanging out with are losers. If I am nice to her she would just smile and leave with another guy for days, if I tell her to leave me alone, man, she flips out, and be “I hate you, dont leave me” (typical BPD). Yesterday for example she wanted to talk, and she started bringing p the relationship issues, and then she attacked me (I got scars, bite marks, bruises, and she burned me with her ciggarette) and she was telling me “I got a boyfriend, I dont give a **** about you”!! I really dont care, I mean yes, she is playing all those sick jelousy games but I really care about her “Probably as a little sister who has so many emotional problems.” She was also telling me you either love me or hate me “again typical BPD”. Her dad called the cops when he saw her attacking me and she is now in jail. the thing is, is that she is a little one, she is 5.2, and am 6.3 but I dont wanna hit her, its disrespectful. Any advise?!!
Best answer:
Answer by Brooke.
you are being a good guy, your one of the nice ones out there, and shes lucky to have you, she just may not realize it yet.
most of the times we dont realize the good things we have until we lose it.
its great you dont hit her back, i respect a man so much mroe that way…but she needs professional help.
You are doing everything you can, you are there for her, which is sometimes what a person needs most…
she needs some help, and all you need to do is stand there by her side, sooner or later she will realize what a great guy you are…
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