i got verbally “abused” by a long time friend/mentor. i can’t get over it. help?

Question by Me: i got verbally “abused” by a long time friend/mentor. i can’t get over it. help?
basically, a long time friend/mentor of mine snapped at me due to a mis-communication, and what i believe is jumping to conclusions on his part, as well as some sort of internal idea that i’m a bad person..all in his head because he was mad. he wrote me an email that was very harsh, stating that i’m screwed up in the head because i honored my DEAD PARENT’S rules even though i am 23, and that he’s put up with enough of “my sh*t” and signed it “ah revior *****.” i have never been anything but a good friend, and i myself have put up with a lot of indirectly mean comments of his regarding my religion since he changed his faith. previously before this incident, he has always been very supportive of me, kind to me, gentle, etc. NEVER never never would i have ever thought he’d be so cruel to me, or call me such a name. This complete turn of attitude to me, in what seems as though he’s gone from respecting me, to literally hating me, has me all upset. He’s male, and he’s also much older than me which has made me always regard him as an authority. To be treated like this by someone who I looked to for support and direction has really bothered me. “Au revior b*tch” won’t get out of my head. Not only in his mind did I go from being “good” to now, a completely horrible person, but also, I’ve lost a friend and a mentor. His behavior does not warrant a response from me, but I feel sort of..traumatized..from reading what he wrote to me. How do I get over this? I can’t get it out of my head. I know I don’t deserve to have been treated like this and the best thing to do is to just be happy and move on, but I can’t get over it :/

***He emotionally supported me through my ordeal with cancer when I was a teen, when no one my age would talk to me much or have anything to do with me, because I was “the sick kid.” If that clarifies what I meant by mentor..

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Answer by alexander w
.Au revoir bi tch should be ingrained in your brain.He may have been your friend and mentor.Were his intentions hororable or self motivated. I think the the latter

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