Ladies, why do some of you COMPLAIN about being “abused”, when you are the sometimes the ENABLER of it all ?

Question by Zodiac Man *: Ladies, why do some of you COMPLAIN about being “abused”, when you are the sometimes the ENABLER of it all ?
I mean. Most women do get a sign of an abusive man, at one point or
another. There is always a sign, but it is up to you to discern it.
And then when that happens, you have to take action immediately.
Know what your partner is capable of doing, and ask yourself. Is this
really worth it ? If the answer is no, then leave when the fire gets
too hot !! Dont sit there, and take abuse, it will only get worst. And
please do not go back to the guy. But many of you do. Why do
you stay there in all that misery and pain. Dont lie about the situation.
Dont make excuses. Dont hide it either. Dont blame yourself. Just
do the right thing. But do not make things worse, do you agree ?
Abuse is not always physical either.
It can be on an emotional one too.
Which is in some cases just as bad,
if not worse.
BPGAGIRL. My avatar looks better
than yours. How on Earth, did that happen. =)

Best answer:

Answer by Invisible Girl
It’s not always that easy. Sometimes it’s hard to extricate yourself from a situation. Women (or anyone) who is being abused will most likely be made to feel worthless as a byproduct of the abuse. So that makes it harder to leave. Plus, it’s nearly impossible for a poor person to afford a divorce.

It’s easy for you to sit back and judge people in these situations, when you haven’t been in one yourself.

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