Husband that I still love can not seem to give up Internet porn and dating sites.?

Question by trish: Husband that I still love can not seem to give up Internet porn and dating sites.?
I have been married for over 12 years. A recurring problem is my husbands addiction” to internet porn. He is also active on online dating sites and talks (dirty) to various women. He doesn’t meet with them but says he likes the fantasy. Our sex like sucks as he would rather be on the computer and take care of himself than be with a woman who loves him. Four months ago I found out about a ” friend “of his that he actually talks to on the phone. We had a big blow out and I told him I was done with our marriage if he didn’t give up this friendship and the porn. he agreed. together we threw out the porn in the house and he gave me his computer emails and passwords so I could check up on him. he did tell this girl he was not going to talk to her anymore. ( I read her pathetic blog about it) Yesterday I found out that he opened a new email account, has signed up on various porn & dating sites and renewed his relationship with this girl. What do I do? I still love him

Best answer:

Answer by wildflower c
Get rid of the computer, the internet, or the man…. simple as that.

You have already talked with him about it…. He agreed to stop and didn’t.. he may have an “addiction”… you may want him to seek counseling if you stay together.. but honestly, my first step would be what I wrote above.

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