Don’t I deserve to be mad at my husband over this?

Question by Elle Z: Don’t I deserve to be mad at my husband over this?
Myself and my brother are both recovering alcoholics. He recently “fell off the wagon” and he called me for support. I told him that every day is hard for me and I know he’s going thru the same and he just needs to take it one day at a time. He is going back to rehab on Monday. I’d like him to come visit after he’s been discharged. My husband said “I just don’t think it’s a good idea. Who knows what drama he’ll bring with him” As far as I’m concerned he might as well have said it about me. I’m going thru the same thing as my brother and for him to want to turn his back on him makes me feel like if I weren’t his wife he’d turn his back on me too. And just to clarify……it’s not like he said “I don’t think it would be good for your progress/recovery” I’m FURIOUS!!!
MiamiLandsharks, are you serious??? I’m asking a question (which is what this section is all about, duh) without puting anyone down including my husband.

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