my mother lets pedophiles around?! help?

Question by prettyparadoxal 1: my mother lets pedophiles around?! help?
My mother lets pedophiles around what can i do about this?
my mother is …well obtuse at times. she is the primary example of co-dependancy. She wont stand up for herself then blames others to sheild the abuser so it wont cause any “issues’ in other words she never protected me from sexual predators as a child and is yet again doing it agin to my child.
I live in the building next her her home on a farm. her friends are very few as we live in the middle of nowhere. She has a friend that has told me in the past that he does nasty nasty things to his children and asked me (right after my son was born) if i would help him along when he started asking about sex.He went on to tell me horrifying things that his wife and him do to their kids and at swing parties. the man is sick (his kids are grown up now btw) I siad uhm no… he said he just couldnt help himself he has no control. after that i avoided him like the plague. 2 years later i moved in with my parents on their farm. they are still friends with this couple. I told my mother to not have cole around him.
She piped up and said “what you think he will do something with me standing right there. he’s fine.” I disagreed. she made me sound like i was the crazy one for not wanting a pervert around my son. I am super sensitive about this as because i WAS molested by my mother’s boyfriends and called a liar then too.
He came around and i was with the flu. she was watching him and this an came around . my son went up to him and said “sicko” lol she complained to me about this i said good kid he should defend himself since his grandmother wont and i had said not to have my son around this perv anyways! she got irate and said that he just told me some make believe stories adn that he lieks to get a rouse out of people and tells weird stories when they are not true.. then later she said that i was lying. she was mad because she was defending a pervert and he “helps” her financially. and she said that cole cant say things like that because someone will kill him if he says thigns like that to people.
HOW DO I DEAL WITH A PROBLEM LIKE THIS> how can i show my mother that she is insane? i wont and cant leave. I have too much going on on my mother’s farm and yet i cant handle this kind of mentality and abuse! i wont let my son be subject to her ideas but i dont know how to get it across to her that she is not protecting. what can i do about his???please help me! remember she is my mom. I love her but her behavior is way out there!

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