How should I feel about my long term boyfriend’s porn addiction?

Published July 10, 2010

Question by Indigo: How should I feel about my long term boyfriend’s porn addiction?
We have been together nearly three years (in February) and I had no idea until I confronted him about a hookup in his bookmarks and his top used site. That’s when he told me about his addiction.

I feel upset, betrayed, and, quite frankly, ugly since he has to look at porn at least every other day.

Any opinions? Am I wrong to be upset about the porn and not being told?
Thanks so far everyone. Despite some beliefs (and advice) I don’t plan to leave my boyfriend over this. So you can still give that advice but it will do nothing.

I don’t see this as a reason to break up with someone, but I need more advice on how to deal with it.

Thanks

Best answer:

Answer by John
its perfectly normal, he just needs some time to enjoy himself.

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