What should I be doing, I love these kids as my own, but no one else seems to.?

Question by potato: What should I be doing, I love these kids as my own, but no one else seems to.?
My wife has two children that are not mine, we have two children together, so in all we have four kids that I treat all the same and see them as my own. My wife’s youngest child is stuck in the middle of a battle between her mom and her real father. This is a quick list of what is going on and the mud that is being slung around.
1. Wife best friend is now with her ex
2. The two of them lied about it for almost 2 years
3. Now they want to get married
4. The best friend is a meth addict (intreatment????)
5. The best friend is no longer my wife’s best friend
6. The ex has no legal rights, but demands many of them
7. The ex has yet to do anything he agreed to
A. bigger place
B. Savings
C. Car
D. Medical insurance
8.The fighting between everyone is crazy.
Everyone involved swears that the child’s best interest is in mind, but in the end it looks like they are just tring to piss each other off and out do the other in being mean.What should I be doing? Stay quiet or yell

Best answer:

Answer by mysticduck_kingdom
explain to your wife n do please yell at the ex coz he wasnt there when ur wife needed him.Just tell your wife that you love the kids no matter its yours or the ex.Shower them all your love n prove that u will be there for the kids always.

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