Using Male Chastity Stories To Break The Ice With Your Partner

Using Male Chastity Stories To Break The Ice With Your Partner

As male chastity becomes more and more popular, many men and women know it is the right choice for their marriage. But, they worry about how to approach their partner with the subject. After all, none of us wants our spouse to think we are kinky or weird!

That said, bringing up male chastity could be a crucial step in making any marriage stronger. That’s why it’s important to find a way to break the ice and get your partner comfortable with the idea.

Trust me; once you start heading down this path, you’ll discover that your marriage will greatly improve! Over the years, I’ve found the best way to start the discussion of male chastity is to use male chastity stories.

There are many of them available online, although the largest and best collection of them is available at Altar Boy’s site, (http://www.tpe.com/~altarboy/fiction.htm) so that’s a great place to start.

You can go about this in several ways. If you are shy, you could simply say to your husband or wife, “Hey, I found this interesting site – check it out!” Act like you just think it’s silly at first. The important thing is to get the seed planted. Later, you can ask him or her if there was any story they particularly liked. A day or two later, you could mention that you found a story you liked and ask him or her to read it.

Then, suggest that it might be fun to “pretend” to live out the scenarios in the stories. Over time, the idea will become more comfortable and you can suggest “experimenting” with real chastity for a weekend or two. In no time flat, it will seem normal and you’ll have no problem making it a reality.

If you and your spouse are already sexually adventurous, you could suggest reading erotic stories to each other as a form of foreplay – and every so often, select a male chastity belt story. Over time, pick those stories more and more often. This is a great way to use male chastity belt stories as a way to make the lifestyle seem as normal and natural as it really is!

Of course, when you read these stories you need to keep in mind that they are meant as fantasy. Not all of the scenarios described are a good idea in real life. For example:

•    Many male chastity belt stories have the man end up in permanent chastity from the day he first puts the thing on. In real life, you’ll have to train him. At the start he may be only able to wear it for a week at a time. That’s normal. Don’t let it bother you.
•    Other male chastity stories feature the man never getting to ejaculate again. This is not a good idea. For his health, he needs to ejaculate every four weeks or so. But, you’ll discover this can be made to happen without him having an orgasm at all.
•    Some stories have the man belted against his will while sleeping. This would be a violation of the trust in your relationship, and should be avoided.
•    Most stories neglect to mention the personal hygiene aspects of long-term male chastity. Before you make male chastity a part of your lives, you need to educate yourself about how to keep things clean and healthy down there to avoid infection.
•    A lot of the male chastity belt stories assume that female domination has to be a factor in the male chastity lifestyle. This simply isn’t true. While femdom can certainly be a part of it, it doesn’t have to be. You can get most of the benefits of male chastity without abusing your man.