Gift of a tombstone to a friends mom cordial or tacky if fighting?

Question by Destiny: Gift of a tombstone to a friends mom cordial or tacky if fighting?
I fell in love with my best friend after my divorce. He and his siblings suffer from severe fetal alcohol syndrome and all have variind degrees of mental disorders and drug addictions. My ex husband convinced my new love that I was cheating him with him and i wasn’t. (It was his plan to break my new boyfriend and I up. He also made my boyfriends family believe it too. It NEVER happened and he broke up with me. It’s been a year since he has talked to me and now he and his family hate me for something i didn’t do. my boyfriend is a severe alcoholic, his brother is mentally retarded, and his sister a violent meth addict. Despite his addiction I love him more than life itself as when we where together he was wonderful to me. But because of his addiction he is very emotional and confused, and to be honest not the smartest man. His mother died 10 yrs ago from being murdered and he has always dremed of buying her a beautiful headstone. But can’t afford one. He has told me in the past what he wanted on it down to the color and i want to buy one and decorate her grave with flowers and send him a picture of it for a birthday present to him from me. i was planning on including all their names on it under beloved mother of….. I’m doing this because i love him very much and I want to show his crazy family that I’m not the bad person that hurt their brother that they wrongly think I am. I love and miss this man very much and want to give him this personal gift but do not know how he will now take it. I am well aware that his family is not “normal” in the head as a result despite their ages they act like they are in junior high. But this is something I want to do because I love and miss this man so much and It hurts to know that we are no longer together because of lies. Should i get it or not?
This is something i know they will never have the money to purchase on their own due to their addition.
I am hurt he didn’t trust me because we have been friends since childhood. He isn’t a bad man.
I’m not on meth or anything else. I’m not a stalker and your words are very unkind.

Best answer:

Answer by Jennifer F
You all need to go get neutered.

I thought my life was fucked.

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