Need ADULT help with troubled teen – 16 year old… I think there is a mental illness with him.?
Question by tater tot: Need ADULT help with troubled teen – 16 year old… I think there is a mental illness with him.?
Over a year ago my now 16 had me arrested for “squeezing his shoulder too hard.” I was upset because he pushed me down so when the officer got there I “asserted my rights”. It was not the right way to be but I was really upset for a multitude of reasons.
Fast forward to now… my son realizes he can do what he wants to make himself look good and get what he wants to stay out of trouble. He comes off as really nice to others that don’t live with him. When I ask him for help he tells to go f0ck myself or go to h311. I never touched him again.
He cusses he does what he wants. I was never convicted btw. I just now know I can’t lay a hand on him because it might cause some serious problems. But now THAT doesn’t seem to matter. He’s just taken to outright lying to get what he wants. I told him that he was grounded because he brought a very bad movie into the house – he told me go to H2ll. I said he was grounded from his phone. He told me shove in my aSh. actually text that to me. I called the principal who got his phone. He started crying and told the principal all the “abuse” I have put him throuh. CPS was called. He couldnt really give a whole lot of answwers or specifics. so they closed the case unfounded.
so i am pissed and i tell him he won’t have any enjoyment and he can go get a job (he’s 16) and he can start paying his own way. so he calls the cops and tells them that i am making terroristic threats! he has no idea what abuse looks like.
I feel unsafe. I wasn’t even home when he did this. I asked the police to show up and talk to him because I was scared of going to jail again. I was scared of what he was trying to do. He tells his friend’s parents that I am abusing him. He tells anyone who will listen to him I need real advice. This kid scares the crap outta me. I need a place he can “safely” go until 18 where he is free to fck his own life up without me “messing it up”. No family member of mine (including his dad) will take him. His dad was into meth, his dad’s family all is messed up. My family is moronic all together. We need help.
I looked online military school is 25000 (great for Obama’s kids) not mine. I can’t afford that. Military school is for children who WANT to go and are willing to make good grades. That is not my kid!!!!!
This kid is almost 6 feet and over 200 lbs. I am 5ft 4. Yea he says and does what he wants.
Best answer:
Answer by impending doom
ah, be proud,
your son has all the great makings of a sociopath,
perhaps he will be the next great serial killer…
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