Going to get evicted because of my boyfriend, what do I do?
Question by Mami: Going to get evicted because of my boyfriend, what do I do?
Please don’t judge me just give me some advice.
I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years. A year of it was spent in prison. I was there the whole time being faithful. We were together before he went in.
Since he’s been out he’s been trying to look for a job and we managed to sign a lease to a place. I have two kids already and am pregnant with my 3rd. I do have a job and am in college.
Well the pregnancy was not planned. It happened on a fluke of the pill and so I’m 13 weeks now.
My boyfriend has been hanging with all his people’s who didn’t do crap for him when he was in, typical story. Not even his family did anything. It’s because of me he had an address when he got out! Well his family and his friends all love to party hard. His parents and older sister are into drinking smoking weed and snorting pain meds.
Yesterday my bf was snorting pills with his cousin even tho I told him not to. And today our landlord had to talk to me again about the noise that’s been coming from our place. Apparently everyone in the unit as been complaining about us. He stated that someone said they smelled “Crack Cocaine.” Now I know my boyfriend does not do crack or coke because he’s against it which I think is dumb because he snorts pills. But I do know he doesn’t do that because he is on probation at the moment with monthly UA’s and plus because he doesn’t like crackheads ect…
My bf’s drinking has gone off the deep end at times and so he’s cut back but his main problem is he doesn’t know how to say NO.
I just learned he also has schizophrenia…
My landlord is now threatening to evict us and I’m not losing my house because of him and his family!
What can I do? What should I do?
I am so at lost for words at the moment…and to be honest he’s quite possessive and I don’t think he’ll leave me alone. I’ve tried to break up with him in the past but he just ignores me.
I don’t know what to do anymore…and please don’t bash me for having a baby with this man. I made my bed and now I am going to lay in it. I want to do best by my kids but without him I cannot afford this place…
Please help?
I’m a very nice person who get’s stepped on all the time and I hate how I am. Because honestly I feel bad for even talking about him and his families problems. How they need help. They’re all too high to even clean their house! And frankly I do not want my baby in that kind of environment. He says I look down on him and honestly..yea I do.
I don’t have to worry about losing my two kids at the moment because their father is the exact same way! He lost his custody to me.
Yea my two older kids have a different dad. I have sole custody.
Best answer:
Answer by Buffpap
Get out before he ruins your life too and you lose your children by having them around a drug addict who refuses to get help.
Answer by caliguy
You need to have a sit down talk with him and show him that what’s he doing is about to get them thrown out and for him to start to stop all and stop the partying as the landlord said of the music, bing to him that they’re about to be with out a home he needs to stand up and do his part being in jail he should of learn he needs to grow up or he knows where’s he’s heading back to is jail good luck and god bless you
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