My boyfriend is addicted to porn and never wants sex?
Question by fratellis227: My boyfriend is addicted to porn and never wants sex?
My boyfriend is addicted to porn. I’m not being a girl and overreacting either; He has admitted this to me. Almost every morning I wake up at his place, he’s at the foot of the bed jerking off in front of his computer. The last time I caught him he said he “has a problem” and “wants to get help”. Well it’s been a month and absolutely nothing has changed. I haven’t caught him since, but I was using his computer and I started typing into the address bar and his recent history showed up. It was basically all porn. Then I looked at his full history (yes, shame on me, blah blah blah…). Not a single day has gone by without him looking at porn. Even sometimes when I knew we were talking on the phone, he was watching porn at the same time.
On top of all of this, he never wants sex. We’ve been together almost a year and we’ve had sex maybe a dozen times. He says it’s not me. I asked him if it was related to his porn addiction and he said he “doesn’t know” which I took to mean yes.
I’m so unhappy about this. What should I do? If we talk about it, he’s only going to tell me what I want to hear so I drop it.
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Answer by JP
It can be a serious problem. Thing is. If he does not seek help, nothing will change and you will become more distant. Finish it would be my advise.
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