I’ll help you if you help me..deal? :)?

Question by J: I’ll help you if you help me..deal? :)?
I know this is long, but I’m DESPERATE! I will answer your question in return. Please and thank you! 🙂

I’ve known the guy I like for a while. In the first few months of knowing each other, we weren’t that comfortable with each other, as we’re both pretty shy. All he would do is stare at me, smile at me, and laugh at stupid stuff I would say (he’s my friend’s brother, so we only hang out in a group). I don’t think we ever REALLY talked until maybe 3 months in of knowing each other. He added me on Facebook after that and sometimes he’d send me “love” on Facebook. He also began IMing me and telling me “good night” and sometimes “good night, sweet dreams” a couple nights a month, for 3 months. In person, he would often say random things to me to initiate a conversation, he’d continue to frequently stare at me and smile, he’d try to make eye contact with me and he’d always look into my eyes when we’d speak. He’d try to flirt with me and do anything to make me laugh or smile and he would tease me in a flirty way. (he’s done that up until recently) He also would say my name often. Basically, he spent a lot of time trying to get my attention and sometimes when I would act like I was ignoring him, he’d look disappointed. Over time, he’s shown that he cares about me. One time, his family offered me food and I said I wasn’t hungry and he said I “need” to eat. Another time, he told me not to do meth, “not even once” lol (not that I was planning to, he just RANDOMLY said it to me). Another time, his family was picking on me and he’s like “we only pick on you because we love you.” Once I had a status on Facebook that said “smile, happy looks good on you”, in which he replied “you’re right, so you should smile more often.”

Lately, however, he’s been acting really strange. I came over to their house early last month and for about 15-20 min., he acted like I didn’t exist. He didn’t even say hi to me. He said a few things to me randomly, to make conversation and he was, of course, looking into my eyes. Also, his feet and shoulders were facing me the entire time. I saw him again on Saturday and he came over a few times to talk to my friend and our friends, but he was looking into my eyes pretty much everytime, even though he didn’t speak to me. The only time he spoke to me, is when he was forced to speak to me (because it was a party and he was putting ice cream on my plate, so he was asking what kind I wanted) and it was very awkward and we both seemed nervous. I caught him staring at me a couple times, but for the most part, it was like I didn’t exist. The next day, he liked and commented mutual friends’ statuses on FB, but not mine.

I’m so confused…does he like me or does he not? We’re both 20. I feel like he’s been avoiding me lately, which is weird.
I’ve tried doing the same..ignoring him to get his attention. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn’t and I end up giving in again.

Best answer:

Answer by Nisha Breezy
It seems like he does like you! boys seem to show how much they care and like you for a while. Then they slow down…….Because they don’t wanna make it seem like there on you 24/7 . i Say talk to him about it! maybe a ” hey have you noticed we dont talk as much anymore or thinks are getting awkward?” 89 percent of the time boys want you to make the first move! but of the story im reading im thinking he most deff likes you !!! he’s just spacing out a lil bit.

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