I am missing jewelry and a few other things my house and out o my car. How can I find out if it was daughter?

Question by slbigirl42000: I am missing jewelry and a few other things my house and out o my car. How can I find out if it was daughter?
I live in a house with a few other people. My daughter is not one of them.Its myself and my friend and her 29 year old son and his girlfriend.

Just to give you a little background my daughter is in recovery for drug addiction she has two months clean and sober. My friends son and girlfriend are still using drugs.

About a month ago my friend was missing $ 900 from her room. I think she thinks it was my daughter who stole it from her. I really don’t think my daughter would steal now that she is off of drugs. Anything she needs for right now I have been helping her out with. She lost her job as a result of the drugs.

Anyway, I am now missing things from my room. For example, winning casino tickets ($ 40), winning lottery tickets($ 5),. and most important is my jewelry. I am missing two rings and a pair of earrings that are worth allot to me. Maybe they got a few hundred at the pawn shop for then.

I just want the truth from my daughter. I can’t trust her at all. I want to know if i go to local pawn shops will I be able to find out if she or her boyfriend pawned my jewelry.Or maybe it was the other two that are still using in the house.

I am going to plead with her tomorrow to tell me where the jewelry is but i don’t even know if she took it. And now I feel my relationship with my daughter is over. What should I do I can’t just let her get away with this. Especially since I am helping her and her family with finances until they get back on their feet. I really don’t want to turn my back on them there are two little kids involved and then I won’t get to see them.

Best answer:

Answer by Katherine
If your daughter would steal from her own mother I dont see why she wouldnt steal from your friend Personally I think you need to invest in a few locks or move if possible to get away from this situation with your friend’s son. Maybe you should be feeding your grandkids and paying bills directly yourself instead of actually giving your daughter any money. Addicts really cant be trusted, they are at the mercy of the addiction.

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