My boyfriend just had a cocaine relapse.?

Question by DanceGurl: My boyfriend just had a cocaine relapse.?
I’ve been dating my boyfriend for a year and a half. When we first met I knew that he was socially using coke. I also learned that he had a bad cocaine addiction in previous years. I have never used cocaine before and I really don’t know much about it. I made it very very clear in the beginning of the relationship that the relationship will end if he ever did coke agian. His anger has gotten progressively worse over the past 6 months. He has been very verbally abusive tward me. I broke up with him a couple of day for that reason. That night he admitted he went to his friends house and did coke. He wants me back and quite frankly I love him and I want to work on the relationship instread of ending it. But does he have a cocaine problem?
Is cocaine causeing the anger?
Is it possible to only do it once after 1 1/2 years of sobriety?
How can I tell if hes on it?

Best answer:

Answer by ASHLEY
Yes he does have a cocaine problem. Yes the anger and abuse mostly does come from cocaine use. Unfortunately you cant help him unless he wants to help himself. Offer rehab to him and see if he goes. If not then really think if you want to stay with him for much longer. He will not stop unless he gets help. You can tell that he is on it by his eyes are wide open and red at times, not sleeping much and cant look at you in straight in the eyes. Good luck

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