Question by Lost In SanDiego: What do I do? I am in a relationship, but I am lying to my girlfriend.?
She is a beautiful woman, and I am afraid to tell her the truth. I have an addiction to meth, gambling, and frequent strip clubs, casinos and occassionaly pick up prostitutes. I KNOW ALL THIS IS WRONG, and that I should tell her, and that i need help, but I am afraid of losing her. i want to get help WITHOUT letting her know, so that everything will be alright. We have been together for 7 years, but this has been going on for about 2-3 years. She has noticed changes in my behavior obviously, but (and I don’t say this proudly), I have become a pretty good liar, and good at covering all this up. And NO, she is not a gullible/naive person-she is well-educated and probably the kindest most loving person I have ever met.She has helped me raised my daughter, (I am a single father).How can I get help, and make this work? Only SERIOUS advice please.
Best answer:
Answer by answerplease
if u cant Tell her then why do NT u write a letter of apology to her. i blve aftr some day everythin will be ok. she will forgv u if she loves u till tht time its a matter of pain.
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