My boyfriends mother is SO childish! What should I do?

Question by Taylor: My boyfriends mother is SO childish! What should I do?
My boyfriends mother is the most childish person I have ever met. I am 20 and he is 22. We are living with her at the present moment while we are going to school. She uses my car as she does not have her own. She wants us to give her money to “help” her out with bills and stuff, but then she goes and blows it like the last time bought $ 400 worth of dvds. She doesn’t respect my car. She just took trash out of the garbage bin and put it in the back seat of my car. She has put over 50,000 miles on it in a year. and never gets the oil changed on it. She guilt trips my boyfriend all the time, we were trying to go on a date a while back and she made him feel so guilty that he had to bring her too. She calls him at least 30 times a day. He is not allowed to do anything without her being all nosy about it. She is making him feel guilty for going to school. She doesn’t clean anything, I have to do that. I buy healthy food for my boyfriend and I to eat because we are trying to louse weight and then she will eat it all and then buy crap, like she thinks you can live off of ice cream. I really want to know how to kinda tell her to quit acting like that, without hurting her feelings or seaming childish myself. My boyfriend doesn’t want to tell her off he would just rather give her what she wants and quit going to school and live with her the rest of his life. but I’m not going to let him do that.
he is not stuck to his monthers tit. he just doesn’t like confrintation.

Best answer:

Answer by Rocky
Sounds like you need to find a man who isn’t still attached to momma’s tit.

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