had casual sex of the taboo variety. Now how do damage control so nobody gets hurt? ?

Question by Eve au naturel: had casual sex of the taboo variety. Now how do damage control so nobody gets hurt? ?
Here’s some background info. I’m 33 years old, and I’ve had to move back into my parents’ crib while I await a court date for my SSI appeal. We all knew going in that there would be rules of conduct I’d have to follow (even as an adult) in order to live here and not disrupt the household or cause my parents torment. After all, at my age my parents don’t owe me nothing and already raised me twice.

Anyway, we live way out in the country and I can’t afford insurance on my car so I don’t drive. Therefore, the only places I can go without getting a ride are places within walking distance. So I started hanging out at my Uncle’s house. He’s a vulgar alcoholic and drug addict. This upsets my parents, and they have banned me from going down there as if I were a little child. I can see where they are concerned, as I am supposed to be in recovery from drug addiction.

Long story short, I’ve recently met someone who hangs out down at my Uncle’s. I’ve started sleeping with a distant blood cousin who is recently separated from his wife. I’ve been drinking and smoking weed.

I face getting kicked out of my home if I even go down to my Uncle’s again, and it’s my meeting place/ Love Shack to meet my lover. I haven’t seen my lover in a week since my father bursted in down there; we’re all lucky he wasn’t toting one of his guns.

What should I do besides get a life? focus on improving myself. Regain my sobriety.

Should I ride out the 6 months or so before I get my own place and then establish contact with my lover if I’m still interested?

Should I even sneak down there and leave my lover a letter explaining the situation?

Please don’t tell me the obvious, that I shouldn’t be with my 2nd cousin especially when he’s married. I know that, and don’t need to read “Eeeewwww!”
To those who have insulted me,
You might think I’m a “doushe” or “trailer park trash” but even I have feelings and have been taught basic manners. Haven’t you ever heard, “If you don’t have anything constructive to say, don’t say anything at all”? Yes, I have a lot of problems but I don’t say or do things purposefully to hurt others. Insulting others doesn’t make me feel better about myself, does it you?

Best answer:

Answer by Amanda F
Sounds to me like you have already made your mind up, but I’m not going to warn you of the hazards of cousin love.

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