My brothers in rehab, PLEASE HELP!!!!?

Question by gfsgf: My brothers in rehab, PLEASE HELP!!!!?
I have a 21 year old brother,
and at the moment, he’s in rehab.
Before he went tho, he used my phone to call his girlfriend, lauren, but she never answered, and he texted her.
(We think that lauren brings him drugs, because he’d always do it when she was over.)
Today, I got a text from her saying that it would mean a lot to her if I could get his work number for her,
but the thing is, I don’t think he told her hes in rehab.
He JUST went there, so…
should I text her telling her hes in rehab, should I go to the place he’s at and tell him, or should I not tell him at all?
I used to talk smack about her all the time to my dad, because I hontesly thought she was bringing him the drugs (he has a heroine addiction, that’s why I was angry.)

What should I do?
I have no clue what I SHOULD do, I mean, it really looks like they’re in love, and I just don’t know if I should break that up.
But on the other hand, he ALWAYS did crap when she was over.
WHAT SHOULD I DO!? HELP!!!

Best answer:

Answer by lisa s
ignore it
Your brother knows how to get in touch with HER and for all you know, your brother told her he was ‘working’ to explain his absence.

Maybe that was your brother’s way of getting away from her and the drugs….

Maybe your brother loves her maybe he doesn’t but it is not your place to make a decision to out him….what if the girlfriend shows up there and convinces him to leave…although it would not be your fault, you would feel really bad about that

Text her back and say that you dont have the information if you dont feel comfortable ignoring her
but whatever you do, it is for HIM to tell her so make sure YOU DONT tell her….
I wouldn’t say anything to him either…if he doesn’t ask
after all
HE KNOWS HOW TO GET IN TOUCH WITH HER and would get in touch with her if he wanted to.

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